Are you worried someone is thinking about suicide
|Topic||Advice for families, whānau and friends about suicide|
|Publisher||Mental Health Foundation & Ministry of Health, 2017|
Depression is an illness that can affect how children and adolescents feel and behave for weeks or months at a time. This will affect how they function in their day to day lives.
Depression can start at any age – from childhood through to old age. Very severe depression can result in symptoms of psychosis (loss of contact with reality). People with depression often have other problems such as anxiety disorders, substance use disorders and personality disorders, and may engage in deliberate self-harm and suicide attempts.
If you‘re concerned you may be depressed, a number of NZ websites have useful self-tests you can do, and there are sites just for children and young people. These are listed to the right.
Remember, depression is a serious illness and you do need to see your doctor if you suspect you, or a loved one, may be suffering from it.
Depression is a sign of a weak character
NOT TRUE The fact is that depression can strike anyone. While some particular personality types are more likely to develop depression, the vast majority of people who develop the condition have been previously healthy and led normal lives.
People with depression can just 'snap out of it' or just choose to 'pull their socks up'
NOT TRUE One of the most disabling symptoms of depression is the fact that it saps the will and makes doing anything an enormous effort. Depression is an extremely unpleasant experience, and most people with this condition would (and do) do anything to get well. Children and young people will not “grow out of it” and it is not just a phase.
The exact cause of depression is not known. Children who are very sensitive or anxious are more likely to develop depression. Many things can be considered as factors that make young people and children vulnerable to depression.These include:
Symptoms of depression usually develop over days or weeks, though you may have a period of anxiety or mild depression that lasts for weeks or months beforehand.
Depression in children and young people is different from depression in adults, and they may be more irritable and rebellious than sad. Children, especially, may not be able to express in words how they are feeling because of their age. Signs to look for in a young person or child include:
There are pen and paper tests for depression. However, usually a diagnosis is made by the doctor or clinical psychologist based on whether the child or young person has some or all of the typical symptoms, and the length of time they have had them.
For this reason it’s important that your doctor spends time with you and your child to get a full understanding of the difficulties they have had. While depression could be responsible for the symptoms listed above, the same picture can be seen with the depressed phase of bipolar affective disorder and also in some medical conditions. This is why it’s important your doctor excludes these conditions.
Note: Over the age of 16, young people are treated as adults in terms of consent for assessment and treatment. Below this age, caregivers (usually parents, but sometimes organisations such as Child Youth and Family Services when children are in care) have legal responsibility, and for consenting to any treatments the child may receive.
Depression can be effectively treated, and people will usually recover from it. The earlier effective treatment is started, the better the chance of recovery. If you think you or someone you know is depressed, look for the signs and talk to them. Your support is important.
Treatment of depression can involve a number of aspects, each of which can be tailored to a child’s individual need. For most, a combination of medication and talking therapies such as counselling can be effective.
The doctor may prescribe antidepressants. Finding the right medication can be a matter of trial and error – there is no way to predict which medication will be effective and tolerated (have fewer troublesome side effects) by any one person. Doctors are usually very careful when prescribing for young people. If your child is prescribed medication they and you are entitled to know:
It’s really important to tell the doctor or counsellor if your child stops taking the medication – a sudden stop can make the person taking it feel bad. If your child is considering stopping medication talk to your doctor and work together with them to find some compromise that will ensure continuing wellness but address their concerns about the treatment.
Supportive counselling is a treatment for milder forms of depression, where it is as effective as antidepressant medication.
Other effective therapies are more specific, eg, cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT). Your doctor will explain what is available locally and which type of talking treatment is most suitable for your child or teenager. Medication and therapy can be helpful for many people.
Remember, if you are experiencing depression and are at school you can talk to:
The term complementary therapy is generally used to indicate therapies and treatments that differ from conventional western medicine and that may be used to complement and support it.
Certain complementary therapies may enhance your life and help you to maintain wellbeing. In general, mindfulness, hypnotherapy, yoga, exercise, relaxation, massage, mirimiri and aromatherapy have all been shown to have some effect in alleviating mental distress.
When considering taking any supplement, herbal or medicinal preparation you should consult your doctor to make sure it's safe and will not harm your health, for example, by interacting with any other medications.
Taking care of your child's general health by making sure they eat well, get enough sleep and exercise are really important to help them through depression or anxiety.