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Individuals

  • Scrap booking / sharing family histories/join a genealogy group
  • Shared lunch/coffee with friends/family
  • Gather some friends for film evenings – get people to share a film they like
  • Call someone who you haven’t talked to in a long time
  • Know your neighbours - invite your neighbour over for a coffee or share food with them
  • Ask your workmates what you can do together to celebrate the MHAW theme
  • Smile at a stranger – you may be surprised by the smile you get back!
  • Walking the dog or walking with a baby or toddler. It’s amazing how much more likely people in the street will smile or stop to admire them!
  • Feel the fear and do it anyway - try a public speaking group and make new friends and increase your knowledge on a diverse range of subjects.
  • Connect with the whenua: do you have a place that recharges you? Make a plan to get there now and be there more often.
  • Join your local craft, sport, hobby, or book club.
  • Commit to talking to someone new everyday for a year, keep a journal of your encounters – write a story! 

Families

  • “Talk don’t text” day in the family.
  • Create a timetable of events – one activity a day
  • Family history scrap booking – explore your roots.
  • Find more opportunities for humour in the home – start a family joke collection.
  • Whanau picnic, join a community picnic.
  • Bring out the old board games you have – you may be surprised at how much fun they still are!
  • Start up a family and friends mixed social sport team.
  • Have a family gardening day – everyone gets to have a plot.
  • Get the kids to cook the family meal.
  • TV-free day - spend time sharing stories with each other, stories from your day, your own childhood etc.
  • Family days where different members get to decide what happens, eg. grandparent day, kids day.
  • Group booking of a leisure activity - get out into the land, go on a nature walk or visit a marae.
  • Pot luck dinner – share/try dishes from different countries. 

Communities

  • Be a volunteer for a day http://www.nzfvwo.org.nz/ a list of member volunteer organisations.
  • Join or set up a neighbourhood group. http://www.ns.org.nz/index.html/Factsheets/Factsheets
  • Get your council to commission artwork in a public space to inspire the theme and messages.
  • Hold a poetry evening related to the theme.
  • Organise a street BBQ.
  • Make a one-off Zine, include local writers for contribution.
  • Community centre open days.
  • Organise community visioning day/workshop.
  • Promote opportunities for communities to be part of advocacy, eg. healthy policies.
  • Organise or attend cultural performances – in a mall or park.
  • Take time to read your local newspaper or newsletter – find out what’s going on in your local area – then organise a group outing to support it.
  • Get a group of people together to chalk messages on the footpaths about what the theme means to you 

Schools

  • Shared lunch like pot luck dinner - all students bringing kai from different cultures.
  • Get involved in your local community garden – or start one!
  • Baby photo day, everyone bring photos of when you were babies in and the rest of the class has to guess who is who.
  • Organise or promote ‘random acts of kindness’ days. 

Older people

  • Become involved in seniors’ groups
  • Baby photo competitions – guess who the baby is!
  • Pot luck dinners – dishes from different countries
  • Celebrate your life through stories and photos, share with others or support someone you know to create a scrapbook/memoir.
  • Organise a ‘This Is Your Life’ show for an elder that you know.
  • Get involved with youth and youth events – show that old can still be bold!
  • Get your ‘glad rags’ on and take a group out dancing for the night
  • Organise a sing along evening with old favourites.
  • Visit a friend that you have not seen for a while - talk, talk, talk… 

Workplaces

  • Have a shared or pot luck lunch to encourage workplace connections.
  • Inter-floor mix - make friends with the people on other floors, share kai.
  • Establish staff interest groups, e.g. coffee groups, book groups, walking groups.
  • Top team competition – form teams and play fun games, eg. kapa haka for health
  • Have a talk, implement a ‘no email’ day among staff. 

Working with Primary Health Care/Health Professionals

  • Talk to local Primary Health Organisations about promoting MHAW / winning ways to wellbeing. Suggest a partnership.
  • Work with Brief Intervention Teams to have MHAW resources available for clients etc.
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Patupaiarehe13 (Aroha Patupaiarehe)
@mentalhealthnz .Yes that is the most difficult of the 3 but I try to stay above it & if I can't then I have learned to step back 4 time out

21 May 11:18pm

mentalhealthnz (MHF)
@Patupaiarehe13 sounds good. That third one especially. I hope you have all three. HT

21 May 10:36pm

Patupaiarehe13 (Aroha Patupaiarehe)
@mentalhealthnz Having a Roof over my Head, Food on the Table, knowing I can pay the Bills & being able to deal with any Stress in my Life.

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